surround yourself with people who

  • praise you because they mean it
  • don’t want anything but your company
  • do their best to understand you
  • you feel like you can confront if you need to
  • (know they can confront you lovingly in turn)
  • make you feel comfortable
  • stick with you through good and bad times
  • are positive influences on your everyday life

Because they mean it, 

Not cause they want something from you. 

Please understand how hard that is to find. 

(via iamsmittysthoughts)




Being in a genuine real relationship seems to be a lost art. It’s lost to people, “just talking” while they’re free to thirst over other people via social networks and you really can’t get mad at them, because you’re technically not together. It’s lost to people who would rather date their instagram feed than the person sitting at the table across from them.

Write that essay though!



Sometimes niggas just need to hear that you love them, that you want them. Even if you feel like you’ve shown the person how you feel, sometimes people just wanna hear it. Like “Hey I know we do what we do, but just in case you’re feeling off today, I love you. I want you. I care. I don’t want to lose you. I’m here.”


(via thepoetspace)